The fog does lift. Option B.

Death.
Of relationships.
Of people you love.
The sadness never goes away.
The fog that you are covered in is invisible to everyone around you. It lifts momentarily, but it keeps coming back, and you prefer it being that way because you feel closer to the loss you have been through.
Something changes forever.
Life goes on.
Not sad, but different. 

The link below will take you to the complete interview. Oprah Winfrey talks to Facebook COO and bestselling author Sheryl Sandberg on losing her husband, Dave Goldberg, in 2015, and how she learned to build strength during life’s challenges.

Sheryl Sandberg – Interview Super Soul with Ophra

 

While this is about picking up threads from where it all fell apart, it also makes you reflect that you need to eventually move on. Allow yourself to be happy.

It is odd that I feel all of this each time I invest in relationships. Professional or personal. IT is difficult for me to deal with the shock that it is no more.

The Person.

The relationship.

The equation.

The trust.

The comradery.

It is difficult to fathom. It is difficult to deal with. Most people will keep telling you that its ok to move on. I feel each one is different. We all take our own time healing. To put it behind us. and move on.

 

 

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